Monday, 19 August 2013

Most important conversation in their life

I always enjoyed talking with my kids. At least that is what i want to feel, instead of feeling stressed or annoyed or running out of idea answering what some ppl think a stupid questions, but less ppl know it's actually the most important questions that will decide what their future will look like.

Last time on our way back home, my eldest son khalif asked a lot of questions on his fav topic on the road - lorry, all their types, its functions, where it goes and the list continues. For me, it just requires logic, perserverance and sincerity in answering their questions, but as simple as these three, most ppl easily failed to meet the kids expectation. Some simply giving them ridiculous and illogical answers just to make them shut their mouth, many will lose temper and raise their voices over the kids, even worse apply physical forces on them.

Like my nephew once asked, why some ppl were born or made blind. A family member said the God wanted so, so be it. The answer is not wrong, but how can you expect a little could understand such answer. They would never satisfy with such answer and will ask for further explanations. There comes our patience and little bit of brain-work when it most needed. As my nephew asked again when she gets the same answer twice, i just say we should give a better explanation that she could appreciate, a more comprehendible reasons like the blind was blind so we could appreciate our sight while we have it and you can have better brighter answers. Check out.

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